It hurts a lot, I'm regreting this surgery

Saige777

The worst decision of my life, what I wouldn't give to go back in time and never do this to myself.

I'm 9 days post-op and the swelling has gone down a lot. My clitoris is completely mutilated and will never look or feel the same again. I now look like I have a deformed micropenis instead of a normal triangle shaped clitoris

I had so much tissue for my surgeon to work with and he could have created a beautiful normal-looking clitoris but instead, he pulled all the tissue off, sewed a piece of it to one side awkwardly (and it also still hurts badly) and left me with an overexposed gland in the hood that forms a giant bubble and creases my clitoris and looks like a skin disease. He also cut the labia in such a way that it doesn't hang down naturally, it curls up like spaghetti and bends into the bottom of my clitoris. One side of my labia is totally amputated and the other is much longer.

Functionally I have felt very dry since the surgery and am worried about damage to the Bartholin gland ducts and that I will never be able to self lubricate again. My clitoris is also extremely sensitive and feels nothing but pain if it brushes up against my pants or is touched.

I don't even think a revision can help me at this point. My self-esteem is gone and I'm so embarrassed to ever even let anyone see me naked again

This surgery is much riskier than I initially thought and I highly advise anyone looking into it to reconsider, it's not worth the risks that some doctor's take.

If you do decide to do this, use a board-certified plastic surgeon that has performed no less than 1000 of these because it's an art and you can get butchered so easily

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Vlovely

Omg this happened to me

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Olka912

What happened to you exactly? Could you share your Story? Of course only if you want to.

Olka912

I also regret it... Its way riskier than what they say... And also shouldnt be done at all! Every labia is different and i knew it before the OP but then i thought why not remove it.... The worst decision of my life... I already miss my big labia

Kristen

Hi saige! Having all the same issues as you. Any change you can update me on your progress? Are things better for you now after a few months? Thanks

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Olka912

Hey! When did you have the Operation? My clit Was also oversensitive for at least 2 months, now it has improve a lot since.

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Kristen

Last Thursday. So I'm on day 7. It's good to hear someone else had this issue. It almost feels and looks like the clit is protruding when it was usually covered. I'm so worried it will be out and protruding forever now. It hurts so bad.

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Olka912

My whole clitoral area Was swallen so bad that you could see the clit! I was so scared it was gone... First month was really hard for me... 7 days is still very early... Did you have a hoodectomy? Clitoris hood reduction?

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Kristen

Just a labiaplasty, nothing to the hood and clitoris hood was supposed to be done but i am definitely asking my doctor at post op next week. It's comforting to hear that you had the same issue and it got better. Did you have any else in addition to the labiaplasty?

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Olka912

Kristen,
I had many worries and issues. How are you doing now? I am feeling better but it took a lot of time... Uäi am 2,5 months Post OP..

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Olka912

Its better to do both, cause now clitoral hood can portrudge... Mine was shortned

nicole

Mine is definitely a bit better after 2 1/2 weeks. My clit is still sensitive, there seems to be like... 2 sensitive round things that protrude out right now before my clit. It's weird but getting better. I did not have a reduction.

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Olka912

These are frenulum, its alright that they are there! Good luck with the healing!

nicole

Oh it's nice to hear they have a name. Are they supposed to be exposed? They hurt when touched.

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Olka912

They should be exposed. They hurt.. Its normal. Mine were swallen almost 2 months after OP. And they still hurt when i Touch them... It takes time... They were twice as bigger as my clit.

nicole

Okay that's good to hear. I hope they stop hurting altogether after a few months! Thanks for the advice!

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Olka912

Yes, they will stop hurting... It all needs time... They are part of Labia minora... And they stimulate clitoris while having Sex 🤗👍

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